First things first, this is what happens to you when a car is designed with care, i.e. made to easily outlast software and cheap things around it.
Your Japanese car's motor is meant to last at least until any of these happens: a) the car's chassis melts away with time b) we run out of oil c) the driver dies - and the next driver too, etc etc... you get the idea.
Full disclosure: I am a big fan of Honda and Toyota cars, well on my way of buying my 4th CRV (one sold away, only due to country change).
To the point:
- Save yourself untold trouble and make yourself a favour/gift of the year: go on crutchfield and find/buy any (real) carplay/android car audio stereo unit supporting DAB+, bluetooth etc, with 2 DIN size for touchscreen navigation, so that you can pair it directly with your phone.
- If you have an iPhone, a cheap Sony $250 model *with a lightning cable connection* will do wonders and will bring value to your driving experience. You might need a car cable adapter, the simplest ones are available for a few dollars. Extra upgrade would be a parking camera.
- If you double the budget, the range of features increases: HDMI input support, more USB ports, more phones compatibility etc.
Now Enjoy: Your car driving should be a fine experience for the next few years! Forget about Y2K022 problem altogether.