In my view (I primarily do ClearCase, ClearQuest, and Rational Team Concert, but I have contributed to the SCM section of RUP), the "Unified Process" was more an attempt to provide unified terminology and remove gratuitous differences, than it was to define a "one size fits all" process (which is clearly impossible). The experience of evolving RUP resulted in tools that let you define your own process (using whatever bits of the Unified Process that you thought appropriate). In particular, IBM Rational sells that that tool as the "Rational Method Composer". But that process was mostly (and in many cases, completely) information intended to be read by a human. What Rational Team Concert provides is "executable process guidance" (that instead of just being read by a user, is executed by the tools in response to actions performed by the user, similar to triggers in ClearCase and hooks in ClearQuest). Currently, the RMC team is working closely with the RTC team to unify the human readable process description provided by RMC with the executable process guidance provided by RTC.
WRT creating sequence diagrams and such, that is the "Rational Software Modeler", not RUP or RMC (although you can use RMC to create sequence diagrams to model your software processes, so I can see how over the years the two could get confused, especially with the acronym similarity between RMC and RSM :-).
WRT open source'ing things, although IBM in general and Rational in particular do contribute people and effort to open source projects (such as Eclipse, Linux, and Apache projects), neither RTC (the product) or Jazz (the platform) will ever be an open source project ... the source code of RTC and Jazz is owned by IBM. What we are doing with RTC and Jazz is using the development techniques of an open source project to develop a commercial product (we call it "Open Commercial Development", to emphasize it is not "Open Source").
WRT dependencies on ClearCase, there are none. You can use ClearCase, RTC, or both (my team happens to be putting a lot of effort into the "or both" scenario, so I care a lot about that, but you don't have to).
So believe me, the FUD is not from us (:-). Eclipse is (and always will be) an open source project, that happened to be originally started by IBM (which is still contributing a lot of people and effort to the project, because we continue to believe that kind of tool is best done as an open source project). RTC (and the Jazz platform) are not (and never will be) open source projects.