Being a strong J, I have what to learn from Ps. That is, no order when it is not needed. Or, don't organize *everything*. Or, only organize when it is either enjoyable or has a purpose. I'm starting slowly.
An ISTP kid came to my apartment and was watching me put away my laundry. When I got to the socks, we pondered. I learnt a long time ago, to never have more than one type of sock, ergo all socks are pairs, and losing one sock from a "pair" does not render the other sock useless. So when I buy new socks, I throw out all the old socks (unless they are the same type) and just buy enough new ones.
Now the stupidity. Until recently, I have been pairing my socks when I put the away, apparently as a holdover from childhood. My socks get their own half of a drawer, which would leave no reason to pair them. Against my nature I listened to him, and tried not pairing my socks. At first it bothered, me, but I got used to it quickly. Putting the laundry takes less time now, and I have gained some P.
I tried extending that into my underwear. My undershirts and underpants each have their own drawer. So, I figured, there was no reason to fold them when putting them away either. Against my nature I just separated them and dumped them in their drawers. It bothered me. It still bothers me a couple of weeks later. It just drives me crazy knowing that they are not folded. So, after my next wash, it looks like I will fold them.
The question is, of course, why the socks don't bother me, yet the underwear does. There's got to be a reason.
Anyone else care about such things?