I wish I had your self-confidence..."nope...nothing wrong with me, it's ALL OF REDDIT that's the issue!" "I'm perfect the way I am, it's the entire world that needs to change to accommodate me"
I post on hobby subreddits and the ones for my local community and find it's the most valuable online resource since Wikipedia. For example, look up any product review and add "reddit" to it and you'll get real discussions from real people....to a surprising degree. You'd think it would be much more infiltrated with spam and insincere paid reviews, but the mods are very good at stopping those, as annoying as they can be.
For example, search for a power drill model and you'll see a lot of honest reviews and people saying how they like it and how it compares to others on the market. I happen to be into power tool storage as I have a small space and a futilic hope that somehow I can utilize that small space and find things without selling a bunch of things toolboxes which will help me find things by some dark magic bending the laws of physics and reality. It's a space that has had a lot of activity, interest, and innovation in the last 10 years and there's a lot of discussion....almost all helpful. I can post on power tool forums and get honest answers as well as fair upvoting. For my hobby subreddits, I've learned a lot more from the redditors than any professional author, blogger, or magazine. So while I don't like every detail of the experience, for that reason alone, I keep coming back and learning more and more. Also my local subreddit for my city is quite nice and informative.
Yeah, if you want to rant about feminists, liberals, cancel-culture, "political correctness" or whatever assholes are ranting about these days, you'll get downvoted very quickly.
What is suspect is most people with negative experiences in Reddit fall into one of 2 categories...either pessimists who see annoyances and can't get past them. Yeah, the car detailing subreddit is run by assholes and unhelpful for getting questions answered, for example. I disliked my experience there, but recognize for every shithole subreddit, there are 10 that have been amazing.
The second category is just people who are either contrarians or jerks and aren't used to feedback.
People online call themselves "conservatives" or "heterodoxy" when they honestly have little in common with textbook conservatives beyond being annoyed with or disliking liberals and optimists. They attach the label "conservative" to give their contrarian nature some legitimacy, but they don't actually believe in anything or have positive beliefs, they just like shitting on people left of the spectrum....mostly strawmen "wokesters" who don't really exist outside social media and have no real power or influence in the real world.
Basically, you're annoying to the rest of us...and probably most people who even agree with you. You're a repellent person and people are saying so. When I post something here or on reddit and it gets massively downvoted, I don't think "they're all adolescents or woke fools or cry out 'cancel culture'"...I think either "A: I didn't communicate my opinion very well if so many people find it objectionable" or "B: maybe I'm an asshole?" Have you ever considered that maybe you were the problem? Perhaps you're so used to people just tolerating you...figuring it's easier to just let you rant in person than correct you or tell you they wish you'd go away? Sometimes it hurts getting honest feedback, but that's part of "free speech"...the freedom for your audience to tell you "You suck!" or "I just don't care about whatever you're going on about."