"But if we agree what will happen in the book is unchangeable, and what will happen tomorrow in our own lives is equally unchangeable, then there is no point to it."
That sounds to me a lot like "what is the meaning of it all?" The answer depends on whom you ask. There's no overarching "point" or "meaning" to anything, in principle. You need a mind for that, which means we are the ones imbuing the universe with meaning.
"Why talk of what might happen? we can't learn something new from it, we can't change it, we are just along for the ride."
I don't know about you, but I learn something new every day. We may only be along for the ride, but that doesn't mean we're not here, or that we can't enjoy conversations as we go along. That a hypothetical omniscience would always have known how it would turn out, doesn't change that.
" Our script has been pre-written,"
In a sense, but also, no. No one sat down and wrote a story. That the laws of physics dictates that everything that happens is, at the extreme end, a consequence of a bunch of hydrogen and a lot of time, is just how it the universe happened to work out.
"Science so far has reduced it to probability not predictability."
Technically true, but there was a reason I had a "in the way that" in there. We use quantum mechanics in our technology all the time, and do so reliably.
"While the possibility for randomness does not imply free will, its sufficient to dislodge strict determinism,"
Possibly, yes. It's really hard to say. If Feynman's stance was that "if you think you understand quantum mechanics, you don't understand quantum mechanics," I certainly won't claim to have the vaguest idea. I did watch a video with Lawrence Krauss a day or two ago, where he mentions how hard it is to do experiments on quantum mechanical effects, because the moment you allow the particles to interact with the world around them (in effect, I suppose, becoming a part of the classical world), the weird behavior disappears. So even though the underlying reality of our world is quantum mechanical, the classical world we inhabit hides its whims. That greatly limits what that randomness can actually impact at classical scales, as far as I can tell. As I mentioned elsewhere in this discussion, if randomness due to quantum mechanics was a significant factor in our brains, for example, it's hard to see how they'd function reliably. But, I agree, there is at least the possibility it throws some randomness into the works even in the classical world, at least if we're talking at cosmic time scales. This is all my "very much not a physicist" take on things, to be clear. And, as you say, for the topic of free will, it doesn't make any difference.
"I don't see why consciousness need only be a passive observer, or why it's "output" would not be fed back into the brain future decision making, thus affecting the future."
I remember watching a Sam Harris talk, back at the very start of my journey down this rabbit hole, where he makes examples of how you make all kinds of decisions without you having any apparent conscious impact on them, and my response was nearly word for word what you just wrote. And I dismissed the idea of no free will, until encountering it again years later.
The problem is that it makes no difference. If deterministic effects creates consciousness, then its thoughts and subsequent feedback back into other parts of the brain is just another link in the deterministic chain. There's no free will involved. For consciousness to be able to affect the brain's processes in a non-deterministic way, it would have to exist within unknown physics.
" setting into motion a butterfly effect of cascading macro impacts"
Sure, that kind of randomness could be a thing. But it doesn't grant free will.
" I "choose" to think we do have some control over our destiny too."
And I don't spend every moment of my day reminding myself that I don't believe we have any control, in much the same way I don't spend every moment thinking of the fact that my eyes only see parts of the electromagnetic spectrum. To do otherwise would just be exhausting. I expect our different approaches have much the same practical effect. We both go through our days feeling like we make decisions and that they matter. I think that's the right approach, by whichever way we get there, because regardless of how the decisions are made, they do matter to those around us and to our own sense of wellbeing.
"If its true it changes *nothing*, and nothing can be changed. So what's the point?"
That circles back to the top. Everything or nothing at all, or anywhere in between, depending on the brain you pose the question to and its view on what "the point" entails.
I've found the acceptance of a lack of free will to change my outlook on several areas of life. It has granted me a renewed sense of humility for my good fortunes in life, and increased empathy for the lesser fortunate. To me, that's a valuable outcome. To someone else, who has been beating themselves up their entire lives for making poor choices and suffering the consequences, it might be a life changing turning point to realize they were screwed from the start due to childhood experiences, and that they have no reason to feel bad about having made those choices, and they finally go on to make better ones. To yet someone else, they might lapse into a state of "nothing really matters" and wither away.
Whatever the outcome, that it was pre-determined doesn't change the fact that people are affected. I hold that it matters. That it has a point.