You're quoting individuals who are not setting policy. It's a bit disingenuous to quote a random right wing asshat Israeli politician that runs his mouth and equate it to Hamas actually going door to door and murdering people. When the State of Israel actually does those things, lemme know, until then, it's a BS comparison and I think you know that.
You have the most important point in this. Words are just that, until actions occur. It's not good that people actually believe and say ridiculous hyperbole equating words with violence, or silence with violence.
If I talk about how someone should just die, and say it in a the most hurtful, hate filled way possible, they might feel all kinds of emotions.
If I decide that they are an existential threat, even a short barrel .380 is gonna leave an impression of what is violence.
I'm not a "big guy" or a "keyboard warrior", or anything else of the sort; I am just a guy who's experienced the difference, and gave that experience when necessary as well.
It takes a whole lot of reality disconnect to not know the difference between talking and doing.