An unencrypted network takes no action on the part of the person connecting,
Sure it does. You have to buy specialised technical equipment that implements specialised communications protocols, locate it within range of the network, and choose to connect.
and does nothing to indicate that it's intended to be private.
We're talking about networks that people are running to connect their own devices within their own homes with no intent of sharing them and quite possibly with no understanding that they can even be accessed by other parties.
Besides, where did this presumption that everything is public unless it isn't come from? Why do you feel that you should be entitled to connect to anyone else's network, whether it's secured or not? Would you walk into someone's garden because their gate was open, or follow them into their home if they left the door unlocked?
People could even inadvertently connect to it depending on how their device is configured
Sure, someone who was similarly ignorant of networking might accidentally do that. Do you think arguably the most successful Internet and data mining company in the world is ignorant of computer networking and the fact that WiFi networks they can see as they drive down the street are probably intended for the personal use of their owners?
By encrypting it with WEP (or even mac address filtering, as retarded of a "security" measure as that is), you're indicating that your network isn't intended to be free to access.
As you noted yourself, WEP is not an encryption scheme. It provides no more meaningful security than sending wireless data in the clear, and I don't see why it really makes a clear indication that a network is intended to private where, for example, setting an SSID of "DOE_FAMILY" does not. As I seem to be posting in every other reply to this thread, you're just choosing an arbitrary standard of false security and claimed privacy that fits your chosen position.
If you live on a corner lot and kids keep walking through your front yard in order to cut the corner on their way home from school, good luck yelling at them for trespassing.
You're muddying the waters by involving kids and property with unclear boundaries, both of which make it less reasonable to assign blame to the trespasser and transfer a measure of responsibility to the property owner if, for example, there is something dangerous on the ground and a child hurts themselves on it. It's not really a fair analogy.