I'm afraid that I cannot quite agree with you:
> The SS-N-22 is a hush-hush subject because it basically reduces our carriers to floating targets. Not the case.
Sorry - but carriers already *are* floating targets. I remember quite clearly the fleet showing up at Lybia quite a few years ago. The carriers had aircraft which were used exclusively to protect - the carriers. And bombing was done by aircraft which flew straight from the the US via the UK.
I'm also thinking of that nasty little book in the 80s (I do apologize for not remembering the title right now) which took a long, hard look at the US and USSR weapon efficiency; the last combined NATO maneuver in the north sea showed all (all!) carriers being (simulated to be) sunk on the very first day.
An aircraft carrier these days is a major waste of space, and primarily used for top-class idio^H^H^H^Hpeople to brag^H^H^H^Hprotect our freedom.
> Exocet was a threat when they made the movie Top Gun, but not today.
Really. I'm sure all ships will be able to easily shoot these things down. After all, the anti-missile tests went smashingly well, right? Right?
> In any of these cases, the targeted ship can detect the radar...
Ah, I see. Of course, you certainly need super-special radar to detect a target, right? Normal shipping radar is certainly not sufficient, right? And we cannot possibly hook up a new system to an existing radar - would be too cheap to build...
> A few people mentioned the ethical issue of arming merchant ships
Yes, that's a dumb idea. And seeing that our rules are idiots and morons, this has happened in practically every war since Egypt was founded...
>will change from "ask first, ask again, check three times and only fire when fired upon" to "ask once and if you think he's hostile, shoot." It can even go further to "Check to see if your'e sure he's a friend, and if you can't tell, shoot."
Which already is more or less how civilians are treated by the US Army in Iraq and Afghanistan.