Journal rdewald's Journal: My inner Bush voter. 82
Disclaimer: I finally know what I want to say to my friends here that voted for Bush: You made a mistake. That's okay. I've made enough mistakes, including choosing for whom to vote, for both of us. You may discover your mistake at some point over the next four years. If and when you do, it will be important for you, personally and politically, to understand it. I hope this essay will help. Until that discovery, though, what I have to say is likely to make (at least some of) you angry. I'm sorry for that, it's not personal, what I am discussing here is for my own journey of personal discovery, it is in no way meant to pass judgment on your character, your devotion to this country, or your commitment to making the right choices at the polls. I could be wrong. The older I get, the less certain I am of anything. Bear with me, this is about me, not you.
I had some significant walking to do today (9.65 miles according to my pedometer), which I welcome, because it gives me an opportunity to think. I have recovered from my initial reaction to the election, my emotions have settled into place, and it was time to think. My initial reaction, and the reaction of many of my political ilk, was to separate--to get the hell away from the red state people, to let them lie in the bed they've made, and to try to get somewhere as far away from the mess as I could, both geographically and politically. Somewhere deep inside me, on a completely intuitive level, I knew that was wrong. Separation is not the answer, I didn't understand why, but I knew that getting away was not going to help anyone, most importantly myself.
I am from Texas. I grew up in rural areas, I actually worked cattle as a kid, I had a horse as a teenager, I was country before country was cool. I went to a Church of Christ as a kid (my own idea and desire, my parents were atheists), I went to a Catholic High School. I still, to this day, like any horse better than most people, the only vehicle I have owned as an adult was a Ford F-150 with a tool box AND a gun rack. So, by any external measure, I am a red state voter. At the very least, I have consorted with them my entire life, and I know, love and admire many, many people who probably voted for George Bush on Tuesday.
So, I began to try to understand what happened on Tuesday by looking within to find the Bush voter inside me. As I hope you're guessing by now, it didn't take long for me to find him.
During the campaign, I talked to a lot of people who were voting for Bush, I heard many more of them on the radio, and every opportunity I had I wanted to hear the answer to the question "why are you voting for him?" Every time, and I mean every time, their answer began with the same two words: "I believe...." What would follow after that is as individual as the voter, but the answer always started with "I believe." When you asked a Kerry voter why they supported their candidate, there was no similarly singular prefix. At least half the time, the answer was at least in part some version of "he's not George Bush."
There's a political lesson there, but I am going to go into that at another time.
11/02/2004 was, at the most fundamental level, a triumph of belief over facts. I don't mean that as a smear. Some of the most beautiful and admirable things about human beings involve their ability to hold fast to beliefs. We would have never entered or won WWII without this proclivity, Gandhi and Martin Luther King would have gotten nowhere, there would be no comfort for the grieving, no source of inspiration for those facing long odds without this fundamental bit of humanity. It is not, ipso facto, a bad thing. Like any human strength, however, it can also be a weakness.
For example, for me personally, it was this weakness that enabled my morbid obesity for 20-odd years of my adult life. Just three years ago, I was convinced that I ate approximately the same number of calories as any normal-weight man, that I was just as active, and that my obesity was actually caused by some mysterious, yet undiscovered freak of a combination of bad luck with regard to metabolism, genetics and nature. There was no amount of argument, display of facts, or persuasion by the example of others that could have changed my mind.
Furthermore, I didn't want to challenge this belief. It took six months of intensive psychotherapy to get me to the point where I would keep a food journal, and even then I kept it for a few months as a fraud, to fool my therapist. I wrote down what I thought she would approve of me eating, and continued to eat in secret. For the next two years, I would resolve to keep it about every two weeks, then I would get sidetracked and "forget." I just closed the cover on the very first one I kept daily for any length of time. I have a record of every morsel of food that passed my lips from August 1 to October 29th of this year in one little Moleskin journal. I have another one going now, this is going to be a habit of mine long into the future now.
The point is, the food journal was a direct challenge to my belief that I was "special" with regard to obesity. It doesn't take long to go back and add up the calories in the days I kept in 2001, when I weighed 460 pounds, and see that I was eating about 3600-4000 kcals/day, which is enough to maintain 460 lbs if you're living the sedentary lifestyle of a computer geek who is adverse to exercise. My belief that my obesity was a special case was very important to me. It protected me from the hideously painful reality that the ongoing tragedy of my obesity was in fact something I was doing to myself, that it was something I could fix anytime I chose to do so, that it was in fact an alarmingly complex interaction of a bunch of little problems, not some single mysterious and cryptic mystery, and most of all, that this painful, painful life as a 450+ lb man was in fact a choice I was making daily, not an injustice unfairly visited upon me through no fault or choice of my own. If you asked me why I was overweight, my answer always started with the same two words: "I believe...."
I was greatly assisted in the maintenance of these beliefs by a billion dollar industry--the diet industry. The diet industry does not make it's money by supporting the belief that obesity is an enormously complex interaction of numerous personal lifestyle choices, any single one of which, taken alone, will not produce the condition. It is absolutely essential for the industry to assert that obesity is not the fault of the obese, it is rather caused by something simple and heretofore little understood, and the long nightmare can be ended with the intervention of something you can buy from them. The solutions they offer for sale are simple and straightforward: stop eating carbs/fat/sugars, use artificial sweetener, attend these meetings, eat this prepared food, read this book, take this pill, drink this potion, use this magic exercise equipment, get this surgery. The diet industry, in order to stay in business, needs for people to believe that there is a simple answer (something they can sell you), and that once you acquire this special item, your long nightmare will be over if you just believe.
The facts are out there. Obesity researchers have known for years how you lose weight. Go to this web site. It's all right there. I've reviewed this site--everything you need to know, exactly the advice I am following now to successfully lose weight is on this site. You don't need to buy anything, you don't even need to change the kind of food you eat. However, the remedy is not particularly straightforward. Recovering from obesity is not the easily understood remediation of a single, simple problem. People get and stay obese because of a complex interaction of a dizzying array of little problems, most of which normal-weight people share in some measure, just not in a large enough number or serious enough combination to put the pounds on. Each obese individual has this mixture of a bunch of little causes in different combinations and different levels of severity. Getting to the answer involves a lot of nuance, a lot of trial and error, getting to your own individual answers often involves a process of shifting of opinions and judgments that could be called "flip-flopping" by those inclined to believe the simple assertions of the diet industry.
Meet my inner Bush voter. As a dieter, he believed he was special, he listened to the diet industry. As a voter, he would be inclined to passionately believe the assertion that 9/11 made this election "a special time in our nation's history," he would be greatly comforted by listening to the Fox News Channel. His answers would be simple: support President Bush, invade Iraq, ignore the nay-sayers, dismiss meddling allies, keep the Faith, be strong, stay the course, drop bombs, hate the terrorists. The problem is not complex: it's not our fault, we didn't bring this on ourselves. The terrorists hate our freedom, they hate the fact that we believe in justice. The only answer is killing them. Don't worry about all these facts concerning the failures of the Bush administration at home, in Afghanistan, and Iraq, that will all be sorted out by history. Don't worry about Bush's blind spots, his lies, his massive miscalculations, just believe.
So, I can't claim any particular distinction from the Bush voters. I almost killed myself believing in "specialness" and simple, straightforward answers that relieve me of personal responsibility for the problem of obesity just as they believe in simple, straightforward answers that relieve the USA of any collective responsibility for terrorism. I spent thousands of dollars, bought hundreds of books, joined dozens of gyms, bought an impressive array of exercise equipment and ate several different restrictive diet regimens. When I failed, it didn't matter, there was another thing to try, the next big diet thing out there, always on the horizon. I would passionately swear with every fiber of my being that I would (eventually) prevail, no matter how hopeless things may have looked at any particular moment. We'd all look back and understand in the future why this next idea was finally the right one and why all the others had fallen short before. I just had to stay the course. I just had to believe.
I was wrong.
And you are still wrong. (Score:2)
This is the EXACT attitude I was talking about in my recent JE. No consideration for the possibility that rational, thinking, informed people could come to a *reasoned* decision different from yours, because, after all, "all reasonable people agree..."
This JE drips of contempt for those who don't agree w
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If Richard, or you, just wants to say that he doesn't understand conservatives/republicans, that's fine. To claim that they are (all or a significant %) merely irrational, in denial, ignorant, etc. is
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If Richard, or you, just wants to say that he doesn't understand conservatives/republicans, that's fine. To claim that they are (all or a significant %) merely irrational, in denial, ignorant, etc. is offensive.
Yes, yes it is, very offensive in fact, it'll really raise your hackles. This is why Ann Coulter irks me most of all out of any pundit.
I try very hard to be
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"I believe in protecting the environment," is a statement of values or ideals.
"I believe I can fly when I jump off the roof," is a statement of desires and wishful thinking. It is irrational.
Many or most who voted for Bush believe we're safer with him as President. I and I presume rdewald say they wish and desire that he kept and will keep them safe. That's what they've been telling themselves and been told over and over again.
Your men and women analogy d
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As I said in a little rant the other day. You've got 4 years. Prove me wrong and do good.
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More importantly, it gets you (generic you) to a point where you dismiss the other as not having valid beliefs (in the first sense). Doing that means you will fail to understand where they come from. You make reasoned discussion and understanding impossible.
Your men and women analogy doesn't work
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The problem is, they rarely ever seem to live up to those principles. I can point to medicare "reform", no-bid contracting, "nation building" after saying that doing so was wrong, etc. as a number of ways that GWB has betrayed what I see as the positive aspects of the principles that are usually espoused by conservatives. It's great to run on principles, but how principled is the candidate really, when it seems
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Of course, I suppose the obvious reply is "at least my guy says he agrees with my values".
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Thank you for making sense.
Of course, I suppose the obvious reply is "at least my guy says he agrees with my values".
There was a fascinating segment on This American Life last week, where the h
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1 : a state or habit of mind in which trust or confidence is placed in some person or thing
2 : something believed; especially : a tenet or body of tenets held by a group
3 : conviction of the truth of some statement or the reality of some being or phenomenon especially when based on examination of evidence
I believe in protecting the environment. That fits definition number two. It is not right or wrong. That kind of belief is subjective, not objective.
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I know what you mean by this, and you are right in that it is wishful thinking and irrational, but I don't think that it is fair to classify it as a seperate kind of belief. It seems to fit very well with
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Just note that I was talking about myself. I do have a right to that expertise.
Be well.
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Not surprising, since you'd just participated in my journal where I said that the left should consider that those they disagree with just might have actual reasons for it, and that the reason that they have so much trouble understanding why so many people voted R is because they are elitist/out of touch with large swaths of the country.....
This is precisely the reaction Atkin's dieters have when I tell them their beliefs are not going to give the
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The point of the JE, which you seem to have singluarly missed, again for the record (I don't expect to change your mind), is that any criticism that I might level at Bush voters I would also
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Oh no,
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I would appreciate at least an effort to not put words in my mouth.
People do desire simple solutions for complex problems. What's wrong with that? Why would anyone prefer a complex solution?
No sir, my good friend, it is you that came to all these conclusions about what I was saying in between the lines here. I never asserted that I was doing anything o
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Your sophistry is breathtaking. Whether you used those exact words or not in this JE, your intent was clear. Especially in comparing "you the dieter" (in denial) to "you the Bush voter". And you have used those very concepts (with the exception of "mental illness" and "defective") in the last 3-4 days repeatedly. You have claimed that Bush voters are in denial (they ignore the facts), they vote from fear (they want bush to keep us safe from
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Therefore, pointing out that after a year or so, people quit following the Atkins approach, which INCLUDES a lifetime "maintenance" diet is irrelevant. My claim was limited to those who stick to it. If, after a year, you stop what you are doing, and return to you
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Anything the diet industry has to sell will produce short-term weight loss if one "sticks" to it. There's an old Tex
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seems to suggest the once a year passes, the usual measures for success in weight loss--maintenance, blood lipids, compliance--between a low calorie diet and the the low-carb diets are at best indistinguishable.
That would indicate that a low-carb diet is somewhat equivalent to a low carb diet. Without the link, I can't examine the "defense against the yo-yo"
Anything the diet industry has to sell will prod
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Please stand up to him, Richard (Score:2)
It is because of people like Red Warrior that you and I are going to end up paying so much more taxes to pay for their treatment over their slow death.
It is because of people like Red Warrior,
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Interesting... A friend of mine living down in LA started the Atkins diet about 1.25 years ago (I think). According to his sister (who saw him recently) his clothes are hanging of
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Of course one could make the converse case that the reason the R's think we're elitist/out of touch is because they're anti-intellectual and out of touch with the part of the country we live in, which is just as much a legitimate environment as the vast farmlands. If I had a dollar for every time I've heard the right talk about "stupid idiotic liberals
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They could make the claim of anti-intellectualism. But only if they don't pay attention to to conversations on the right. Sooo... Since they don't pay any attention to what the right says, I suppose they can make the claim. Most of the new ideas of the last 20 years have come from the right. Check out the American Conservative [amconmag.com] as a jumping-off spot. One of the first things you will notice is actual discussion of ideas, not just attacks
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If I did so unfairly, I apologize. That's how I read the "vast farmlands" comment. And that is the same characterization that I have seen over and over of Bush voters, especially when tied to the whole "anti-intellectual" claim. But I apologize for reading more into it than I should.
I agree that the "MEGAfreaken'opolis vs NON_MEGAfreaken'opolis" division is notable, though. ;-> But notice that Bush even took sizeable chuncks in the MEGA
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trying to argue with RW (Score:2)
There are plenty of people on Slashdot to the left of me, SNJoseph and all the other Nader supporters for example. I was an associate member at the 2000 Republican convention in Sac
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The trouble that you have with me, and the reason that you feel the need to exclude me from your journal, is that my skill in debate is far superior to your own. You are a coward when it comes to facing the truth.
Bzzt. You loose. You are banned from my journal because you are a personnally insulting jackass (Lots of people who comment in my journal dislike Bush. They argue better than you, too) , and therefore u
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You mean that you like the way they argue because they act as meek and subservient to you as you are forced to when faced with my logic, research, and debating skills. You have agreed to send others into battle on command, yet you are so unskilled at debate that you are forced to deliberatly exclude me from your journal so that you will n
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Ah! Another fine example. :-) Nah, the Bush voters don't have any principles or ideas they believe in, they're just a bunch of ignorant boobs. Maybe if you actually tried to converse with them, you might find out that they TOO might actually have ideas which they believe in, which are different from your
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No, actually, I'm saying YOU are lying when you claim that anyone says any such thing. As far as thier support for Bush being based on thier faith, that's the same thing as saying "we have common values". I would HOPE that people would support people who have the same value system.
And as long as you keep distorting what the other side is saying, you will keep not understanding why you loose.
BTW, FWIW, you're a case in point in terms of the co
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I sincerely doubt that you have heard people say that Bush is God. Yes, I claim you are lying.
What we wouldn't be doing is telling all the Republicans who were trying to figure out what went wrong that they're wrong to do so
And that's not what I'm saying. I'm saying that the left SHOULD try to figure out what went wrong. AND that claiming that they only lost because Bush voters th
But you're flat out wrong (Score:2)
Kerry never said anything that I agreed with. So I didn't vote for him. I did what I could to ensure he lost. And he lost.
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Thanks for reading my journal.
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My intention was to vote Badnarik. However, Kerry was such a terrible choice to me that I could not vote for Badnarik knowing that every Badnarik vote increased Kerry's chances.
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Some in this JE have suggested that my mention of the prefix "I believe" is singularly aimed at religious convictions. It's not. I heard just as many people say "I believe Bush will keep us safe" or "I believe John Kerry is a flip-flopper" or "I believe we have to show strength in the war and changing the President wo
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There was a lot of "I believe Bush did a good job in his first term" which is tantamount to saying "I am voting for Bush because of his accomplishments i
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Politics are one of those divisive issues that get a lot of people worked up-- we've seen that here and in lots of other places the last few days.
I hope we can all get back to normal, but I also hope people aren't afraid to bring these subjects up-- I've gotten a lot out of all of the recent entries.
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So true.
jason
RW is right (Score:2)
2: To the extent that the people around you voted based on misinformation, by all means correct them. Just because someone rationally assigns trust to a political party doesn't mean that they are unwilling to consider facts from neutral or other-party sour
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Neither one was a Republican, so, no.
Your argument's premise--that support of Republicans by those that do not directly benefit from their policies is equitable to a mental illness--is faulty.
If you think I misread you, please correct me. And don't forget that, after the remonstration, I encouraged you to correct what misunderstanding and non-factual statements you do encounter.
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It is you, and RW, that are equating my discussion of human frailties, which I believe we all share, with mental illness. I do discuss my psychotherapy, but let me tell you something, there are two kinds of people who see psychotherapists--those that are unusually burdened
What I Don't Understand... (Score:2)
http://slate.msn.com/id/2109218/ [msn.com]
http://www.nytimes.com/2004/11/04/nyregion/04york. html [nytimes.com]
The prevailing attitude right now from the Democrats is that everyone in the red states is an ignorant fool. Apparently they feel that we're too ignorant to read these opinions, but they're wrong. The way to win voters is not by insulting them, and this will be
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What I don't understand is why someone reacts to an unfair generalization with another unfair generalization.
I happen to disagree with many of the positions that Bush takes, and with many of the things he and his supporters believe in. Most Bush voters had one or the other (or many) perfectly rational reasons for not liking Kerry -- his Vietnam record, his Senate voting record, his record on fiscal policy (some on the right believ
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But it is a fairly common statement from many places, and it's disturbing to see.
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Ye GODS, the nytimes column makes me so upset. Asshat New Yorkers thinking the rest of the country (rather, the "red states" in particular) is made up of a bunch of uneducated hicks. Why do people who live in cities think that they're so much better than those who don't?
Just because someone doesn't live in NYC or San Francisco or LA doesn't
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1. I agree completely with the above post.
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11/03/2004 was a very quiet day in the City, most everyone was frankly stunned. I honestly don't know anyone here who voted for Bush. Not a single solitary soul. Not any of my friends (not even the uber-conservative multi-millionaire investment bankers I count as friends), not the Pakistanis at the Deli, not my Sudanese dry cleaner, not my Jamaican super, no
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I can see how you can draw that conclusion when he says he's trying to help people who a similarly afflicted. Any that may be the correct interpretation. That doesn't change his charactization then, in prior, and now in subsequent JEs.
In my JE I never said that I was better than anyone, that I was a more educated person than a Bush voter. I even mentioned to TheConfusedOne that I do know plenty of people who voted for Bush,
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And I probably wouldn't gloat quite so much if there weren't so much bile and "you're all a bunch of ignorant, in denial, fools" coming from the left.
Oh, and if Bush hadn't won. He did, btw.
/me ducks
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"None of the people who are likely to be hit by a terrorist attack voted for Bush."
Obviously this is an exaggeration, but it has some basis. The by-county results map [electoral-vote.com] shows that nearly all of the major coastal cities went against Bush.
It seems to me that if a terrorist got hold of a nuke, the best way to deliver it to the "evil empire" is to buy a standard
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You'll find hostages and their families often disagree with the essential principle of not negotiating with terrorists, too - too much at stake to see the big picture, in essence a "vested interest". It's a common refrain: "just give in to [insert terrorist group]'s demands
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This claim seems impossible to reconcile with his actual words.
OBL says, directly, explicity, that it doesn't matter which of the candidates you vote for.
Untrue. He states the outcome will be determined by US states rather than by individuals or by his own organisation. Did you think US states suddenly started having their own foreign policy, or that he was referring to the only way in which states can and do affect such matt
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No, he did not. He said "state" (in the translation). In this context it would mean "nation-state".
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No, the link I posted explains the meaning of the specific Arabic word used. To translate the word he used as "nation state" is simply wrong: it does not mean that. As the link explains, there is a completely different Arabic word with the meaning you are trying to ascribe; the word actually used refers very specifically to states in the US sense.
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It does make sense once you consider the nature of the then-imminent election, whereby those states would be voting - as states - in a choice between what OBL regards as "interference in the Muslim world", and a reversion to the Clinton "law enforcement" approach. Not a distinction I'd expect the average foreign transl
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I seem to recall him mostly speaking some dialect... Let's see... Oh. There's references to him speaking in a weird Saudi dialect [rense.com], Modern Standard Arabic [wizbangblog.com] and old skool qur'an arabic [the-tls.co.uk]. At the same time. And they can't even agree [copts.net] on if he said 'abid', 'ajam' or 'zingi' when referring to blacks...
Was it a direct independent Arabic-Swedish translation, or could they have used the English translation and copied this mistake from there?
I'm not sure, but I'd guess they were
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No. Voting precincts are arbitrary and irrelevant, as are counties, but states are fundamental to the whole election mechanism (as well as the US legal system). Individual voters do not vote for President, nor do counties or prec