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So it was a bad day for most of the day... Talked to her after work and she claims she canceled her date and was going to some party.

I was like fuck this I am not staying home while she hooks up at some party (although she does not hook up like a fiend, still). So I got on Yahoo! Personals, met and started talking to this cool girl at 8pm. At 11pm I was at her house. It was a lot of fun, we talked a lot, had some drinks, watched a few movies. A good date. I was home by 6:30.

When I get home there was a IM from *her* on the PC (she knew I was on a date because she called me at 2am) -- "Hows your date?" "That good huh?" "SIGNED OUT 6:15am"... So chances are she's still sleeping and I will not hear from her for a while.

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  • Dude, I really think it would be good for you, from what I can understand and my limited "outsider's" view, is to STOP CONTACT with her. MOVE ON. She treated you like crap man and is stringing you along. Clean breaks, you know? She said "fuck you" in a chat earlier on, so feed off that dude.

    You can be happy a) with yourself being alone for a while--which is ultimately the MOST important person to be happy with as cliched as that is b) with someone who will love you back who is nice.

    Please dude, even g
  • I can't tell you what to do, but what has worked best for me is to move on---totally burn the bridge and let time reduce the pain. I never had ANY contact with women I broke up with (or broke up with me) and it has turned out for the best.

    (for me that is)dont know/care about how things are with them. The "remaining friends" thing is for people who are better able to handle it than I am.
    • i also think the "staying friends" thing works better when there is a time period of clean break between the dating and friends parts.

      you can be civil toward her without doing anything to encourage contact between you. i'm just an outsider on this, but she's got issues. and she's messing with you for whatever reason. ("i'm going on a date, no i'm not going on a date anymore." "i hate you, but i can't stop making contact with you." it's fucking crass.) being messed with isn't cool. just let her be.
      • also think the "staying friends" thing works better when there is a time period of clean break between the dating and friends parts

        Very possible. I have never done this, but there are a few in my past that I could conceivebly be civil/friendly with if fate crossed our paths for whatever reason. I would not seek this out, however.
        Not sure how the wife would react to this though ;)
        • Not sure how the wife would react to this though

          my guess is that it's not worth finding out.

          about your sig:

          It's a good idea, but possibly not, and I'm not being indecisive

          it reminds me of the TMBG song "spiraling shape," specifically the line, "this could lead to excellence... or serious injury/only one way to know... go go go/go ahead/wreck your life/that might be good/who can say what's wrong or right?/nobody can"

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