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the mommy is back and she had a vote for me. what do you think?

a)adopt a child and give it to her.

b)find a surragote mother. using one of my eggs and sperm from a bank, make a child. then give it to her.

c)go to a sperm band and get myself inpregnated, have baby, then give to her.

d)do a uteral transplant(if there is such a thing). give mine to her and let her have her own babies. only, of course, because i'm not using it.

e)go out and find myself a nice stud. get pregnant. have baby, then give to her.

if anyone is wondering if this is for real, the answer is yes. my mother called me tongiht, while i was at work to ask this of me. each of those options was a proposal she made. i just listened. the less i do for her the more out rageous her requests become. buying a home, or car, letting her work under my social security number. all have been no's. still she asks. the requests only get bigger. so, now i share with you my most recent mutiple choice from the mommy.

funny. there is a hint of guilt triping going on here. she can't adopt becuase i helped get child protective servieces involved in her life. now they won't let her adopt. also, i'm known for not wanting children. personally i can't see myself raising a child in my family or this world. my brother is apparently getting worst with drinking himself into the ground. that leaves out grandkids for her. solution?

a,b,c,d, or e?

tonight is a great night to sleep at the top of a sequoia or a redwood tree. away from all my family and stress:^)

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  • If it's not too prying to ask - why can't she bear another child?

    If it's age related, what makes her think she'll be able to relate effectively?
    • thanks. i needed that laugh. :)

      she had a hysterctamy last year.

      she can't even keep a dog. she doesn't think in the same line most sane people do. i try to be patient with her, but i'm also trying to actually have my own life. my being here are some of my first feable steps to discovering who i am seperate from my fam. we are all do deeply connected in a totally unhealthy way it's insane. i'd rather not live then to live another 30 years like my first. so here i am trying to change it. i'll have to

  • A is unlikely to work: kids are non-transferable like that. B could work, but very expensive (and problems with the surrogate mother are quite common). D has been tried, but IIRC is very far from publicly available at present.

    Which - if you really want to do any of these things - leaves C and E. More or less the same, apart from the sex and money involved.

    The big question, though, is why? From what you say (child services, SSN), I get the impression this wouldn't be a very good setup, and she already ha

  • From the sounds of things, it would be a bad, bad idea. Although from the tone of the entry, I'm guessing that you already know that.
  • Uhhh.... have you like, considered getting caller ID and screening out your mom's calls? I know that that sounds pretty harsh, but if she was even the least bit serious about any of this (and it sounds like she just may have been), then do you *really* need to be dealing with that?

    I mean, I read my mom the riot act for calling me controlling and overprotective and nagging me to make more *grand*babies for her. Your mom's case, it sounds to me, borders on the ragged edges of acceptable mental health (to pu
    • i'd give you a quick run down of my family history from my side, but there is no quick way to do it. my mother has been on medical leave for about 12years now. the mental stability thing is not a question. it is NOT there. she is extremly serious. i have caller id and i do screen her calls. that is why the call occured at work and not at home. i'd love to send the babydoll, but i have enough problems as is with her. i don't need to send her over the edge into psychosis again. when i mentioned possi
      • Well, blue, that explains a lot. Congratulations on coming this far, and not just ending up on the street drugged into oblivion. You have to realize that not actually *knowing* that your mother/family is clinical, I didn't want to venture so far as to say so -- people get funny when you start talking about their moms being crazy. :-)

        Sounds like you handled it amazingly well. And yes, it is completely outrageous. I admire you for being so cool in that kind of situation.

        ....Bethanie....
  • There's always choice Z: Find stud, have sex using no fewer than 3 forms of birth control. Tell mommy all about how you could be having children but are choosing not to. Then stick your tongue out at her.
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  • Pretend the call never happened or Patiently wait for her to forget she asked or for her meds to kick in again.
  • ...would be a bad thing. I hate to say it, but you should probably string her along indefinitely, or until she loses interest (though that might be a long time). That way, she doesn't go stalker (or postal) on you, and she doesn't do something desperate, like stealing someone else's child. You're probably the best judge of whether or not this woudl be feasible. Just don't be responsible for putting another child through your childhood.

    As far as chemical imbalance is concerned, if you think that you
  • ..you select her a nice finger, and give to her.

    (sorry, I've had too much Matrix dialogue lately)

  • why break such a good record of refusing requests? maybe she'd be happy taking care of something a little more simple, like an ant farm. maybe you could get her one of those digital pets. if she kills it, she can just start a new game.

    i jest, but i am sorry you have to go through that sort of treatment.

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