themusicgod1's Journal: Apparently, I'm ugly

Double blind survey of around 30 fairly well randomized women of various ages of various pictures of me led me to a score of about 2/10 on plentyoffish.com, I lost some of the numbers, so no mean/mode/etc unfortunately.

I always considered myself ugly, although with my recent loss of weight I figured I'd be approaching average by now...
guess not.

Although who knows how hot you have to be to not be ugly at pof standards.

But still, you can't argue with empirical data. Maybe the side burns have got to go(although there's always the risk that out of the 30 women who did rank me, one did rank me as hot, and she may have liked them and maybe, just maybe, she's the one I'd be happiest with anyway, and by cutting them off I'd be cutting my chances with her, etc etc).

Also, I like the sean kennedy idea, of embracing your ugliness, accenting it, and building it into something meaningful. Got a deformity, accentuate it. Got a scar? Make it more visible, etc etc. So it's not like this fact is going to bring me down or anything. I've been knowingly ugly for most of my life, I can live the rest of my life this way.

It'd be nice to be able to find someone to love, and be able to keep them easier though, if my charisma roll were a little higher...

Ugly?

[dada21]

I'm ugly. I have no doubt about it.

But my demeanor and personality outweigh my superficial looks. I'm currently dating (openly and with full knowledge of all parties involved) 5 different women who range from attractive to ridiculously beautiful. None of them have an issue with my looks, and most actually find me sexy as hell.

Don't worry about PlentyOfFish -- get out there and get numbers. How did I get to date 5 good looking women, openly? I had to get about 50+ phone numbers. I was shot down over 10

Re:

[themusicgod1]

I don't have a phone, maybe I should get one of those first. Hell, even payphones are starting to get far and few between.

Thanks for the encouragement, though.

Piece of cake

[Captain Splendid]

Heh. Try being good looking but believing most of your life that you're ugly. You got off easy!