Don Qigong's Journal: Even more thin skin

So I have to wonder. What is it in some people's make up which causes them to have a need, a real psychological dependence, on stalking another human being? It's truly a predator/prey type relationship.

For example, if I'm driving down the road and someone cuts me off then, well, they may get a honk of the horn or a wave. If I'm at work and someone borrows one of my tools and forgets to give it back then they may get a word. What is it, though, that would cause someone to follow another person around and repeatedly cut them off in traffic? What is it that would cause someone to repeatedly borrow tools, forget to give them back, and then blame someone else for borrowing?

Obviously, if the predator never actually shows up for a personal confrontation, they have enormous amounts of free time on their hands. So why not do something productive? How is harassment productive?

Unless harassment is productive. Maybe they're getting paid to harass and stalk. While the legality of such an occupation is rightfully questionable we'll have to face the reality that the legal system doesn't become involved unless the target is a member of a social network of relatively important people. I guess I can't blame someone for doing their job but, if I'm the target of paid harassment, I'd like to receive a cut of the pay.