To all the hippies out there who are busy "finding themselves":
You won't find nothing but shit with your head up your ass.
Sorry for the harshness, but I've just been hearing more and more twinkies (late-teenager/early-twentysomethinger, a term my mom coined recently) talking about "finding themselves" like they're on some huge personal mission, which really only consists of sitting around and smoking weed.
My personal view of it (having never "lost" myself to begin with) is that if you have lost yourself (in a bad way) already, you probably should just start over from scratch. Game over. Hand over the controller and take the game off 'pause' so the real players can keep going.