People have unhappy marriages because they stop doing the things for their spouse that they used to do when the relationship was new. They've gotten complacent, stopped doing the extra effort, and then they are surprised to find out that the love feelings just isn't as strong anymore.
I came to that understanding from reading this: http://www.5lovelanguages.com/
There is a lot of good stuff in there and I think if more people followed advice like that, fewer relationships would go south. Of course, you have to be willing and nothing will help you if you are selfish. Some people simply are too selfish for a long term relationship to work.
I think I should start a website where I publish Windows exploits along with thorough step by step details on how they can be used to compromise a system.
I won't sell exploits, or kits, or use the word "tutorial," but I will collect ad revenue and giddy little chuckles in my Linux loving soul
Now to find a domain name for this 8-D