Oh for fuck's sake, this stupid argument again?
When was the last time you saw a guy in a action game that wasn't ripped? Look at characters like Dante in Devil May Cry. You don't see men getting all butthurt because the common perception of men in video games is pure alpha male, muscle bound.
Perhaps you have some internalized male-hate, or maybe it's disdain for 'geeks'. Either way, you need a better argument.