I'm sorry. Even as a software developer i have stopped hitting the "upgrade" button on all things except for Opera, and Firefox. why? because every release just moves up more into confusing user interfaces, more tracking, or charging for services that were free with previous versions.
examples:
biggest one XCode. 3.5 was free 4.0 costs $6.00. granted $6 is nothing. i don't care... but why am i being charged for a product that was free? what is the incentive to upgrade? Well i needed to code and i didn't have XCode 3.5 downloaded anymore (cleared space a while ago) so i paid to get 4.0. OMG is this thing horrible. the installer requires approx 30gig of free space.... the UI is horribly designed making me Apple doesn't know what developers want or need. strangely though as i expect they use XCode exclusively in house.
Skype. As an old AIM user i like a buddy list window and when i double click friends a new window open up allowing me to chat with them. the new skype doesn't allow me to do that anymore. i click on a friend and the window resizes and shows me buddy details. and when im talking with friends everything is tabbed with no option (that i saw) to make everything window based. so thankfully i had an old copy in downloaded. i deleted the new copy and reinstalled the old and will continue to use the old until the copy no longer allows it to connect to there network.
Firefox (maybe all browsers soon). i like the address bar. i like a search bar. i like them separated. why are they 1. getting rid of the bar and 2. why did they combine the search and address bar... so i dont use firefox as my main browser anymore. just as a browser for sites that dont work in opera.
Opera: every release since 10 has only added bloat to the browser. i love opera but i have a hard time lately running opera 11.11 and xcode and the same time on my 4 year old mac. yes my computer is 4 years old. i know i want a new one but i cant afford it right now. what is my incentive to upgrade when they will just add more bloat and not do anything to reduce memory consumption?
software in the 90's followed the KISS mentality and all was good. you had tons of little executables to do little tasks. can we bring those days back? i dont need 1 app that does everything. i need 1 app that does 1 thing and only 1 thing very well and very cleanly and does it very lightly.