This is a strawman argument.
The ruling is not about connection data like IP addresses needed to establish connections.
This is about the data that Apple collects outside of that: email addresses, contacts, geolocation.
If I use, say, iCalendar, obviously I allow Apple to collect and save the data of my appointments. But before Apple can share this data with third parties, they have to tell me which third parties and what data. This isn't 'the privacy policy of the internet at large'. This is Apples (and Googles, and Facebooks, ...) policy of threating users data as their own just because it is saved on their servers.
There is no real need for these companies to share the data with third parties. They do this for their own benefit (usually ad revenue). And