Why so aggressive. There are social people. Then there are owners of super male brain. Then there are sociopaths, or just simple assholes etc. There is very small chance that the social people will ever understand what super male brain actually means. I know because I tried to explain it to my mom, my concerned friends etc. Some people like me because I am good at discussing things (I suppose). All my relationships ended badly which made me research(!) and the result was exactly this. I am maybe not very intelligent but then I am not very social either. I still can hold to few friends that accept that I need some distance and ask nicely from time to time how is it going and then accept complex answer that they get (I guess some of them have the same problem as I do). Keeping a distance is a key not be become a major asshole which works well but not with women.
Ease up a bit - let it go. Some people do not need cuddling and talking about weather. For them discussion about some technical matter instead of weather is very social even if done over IM. It is also better if you talk to them in a way that they can understand i.e. certain procedures of social interaction make chances of professional and date success higher, some not. Please quote relevant statistics and reports.