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but otherwise, agreed, & i'd mod up if i had points.
but your main point is true. NOT a choice. shit when has anybody woken up in the morning & said "shit, should i go suck some dick today? nah." just speaking for myself but i've never had that choice to make. it doesn't appeal to me. there is no dilemma. conversely i can't choose to not be attracted to Sofia Vergara. her name should be Sofia Viagra. bless her soul.
admittedly i don't understand why my brother would find anderson cooper more attractive than sofia vergara but i definitely take his word for it. who the hell would claim something like that if it weren't just true? who the hell would consciously decide that?
as with many things in this world, it is, because it just is.
and to share a little more, yes it was shocking & disappointing. when it's your own brother you think about things, like, how you had always envisioned this person having children. having nieces & nephews. going to their wedding, etc. whatev. but the fact is, it's not gonna happen & just bc it's inconvenient to you doesn't make it anything one can or even should change.
to be honest, if i COULD change it, i probably would. but i can't.
i wonder how many of these 'pray the gay away' camps/organizations just screw the patients/victims up more? or how many victims have been screwed up more..