You're trying to claim that the original StarTrek wasn't a chauvinistic, womanising series in which Uhura was portrayed as an independant woman?
You can many points about how this differs from the original StarTrek, but that sure as hell isn't one of them.
Personally, I think this StarTrek is probably the most StarTrek that StarTrek has been in a long time.
Star Trek had degenerated into some candy ass soap that was one step up from a cross between Guiding Light and the Teletubbies. These new movies are a definite improvement... less hippie love and more nasty. But our heroes are still stepping out of space shuttles onto planetoids and alien planets that for some strange reason always have a breathable atmosphere, earth gravity and no hostile micro organisms their immune systems are unfamiliar with... And why do they need space ships if Khan can beam himself accross hundreds of light years to the Klingon home world? Ahhhhh... The joy of science fiction (mostly fiction but with a pinch of science sprinkled on top for total realism).