LOL - I can't tell you where to find them. They're all around you. To experience that kind of thing, you've got to be in the right place, at the right time, and willing to play along with whatever her needs are. Halifax, Nova Scotia was memorable. I walked off the ship, gawking around. Someone walked up behind me, grabbed my elbow, and told me that I was coming home with her. Nice looking gal - 6 ft tall - lovely but unusual color from her African-Irish-Iroquois ancestry. Beauty. I told her that i wanted to hit the bars and get a few drinks first. She said that she had all the liquor I could want at her place. I let her drag me home, and holy SHIT, that woman was demanding!
Right place, at the right time. But, I swear, there's one near you right now!