We can relate-our son Josh was born at 28 weeks and spent 2 months in the NICU (and major props to Research Medical Center-KCMO!). That was June 2000. In the interim, he did have 2 cases of pneumonia (no thanks to the RSV contracted by some idiot bringing into the NICU-6 babies were affected as well), and the 1st 3 years were a bit challenging developmentally. Now, he's just like any other kid, and progressing just fine. Hang in there-you guys WILL get through this. Will keep you in our prayers!