Here's a very boring journal entry. I feel like sharing the slashdotters with it, but you don't really have to read. Really. I'm writing it here and not in my other blogs because I know he doesn't monitor this one.
Remember Sasha? Well he called me yesterday and we talked and then we hung up, and then he called again..
And he does that a lot - calling 2 or 3 times during a short period of time. And it's kinda distracting and annoying. Not too distracting because usually I'm not doing anything important, and not very annoying either, but minorly annoying.
So after the 2nd time he called, I told him: "You have that weird habbit of calling a lot during a short period of time" (Is there a better way to express that in English?). I thought I said that in a tactfull manner, but my family, later, disagreed..
So he said: "Nave, you don't have to be angry on me. I just wanted to ... you know what? Go to hell" and he hung up. And then he sent me an SMS: "Don't worry Nave, I will not call you a lot in short period. Actually, I won't call you at all". I guess he was really annoyed.
And it seems unacceptable to me, to behave like that. If I annoy him, he should tell it to me in a normal manner.
We've been friends since 1993, but after discussing with my family about it, I reached the conclusion that we doesn't interest me. He doesn't bore me either, and it can be sometimes nice to hang out with him, but I'm not too interested about what going on with him.... it might be sad to break a relationship, but maybe I need to find someone more interesting?
Anyway, my family insisted that I wasn't right, so I sent him some sort of apology by email: "I'm sorry if I hurt you. That was not my meaning. I thought I told you that in a tactfull manner, but I guess it was not. Although it might bother me a bit that you call me several times, but if it's an important issue, then I don't mind"
For the record.. I preferred not to initiate any communication with him for a two weeks or so, just to make him suffer. But I sent that email only because my mom insisted and she also told me she'll try to set me her friend's daughter.. (a thing that failed, because that friend told my mom that her daughter is so busy with her research that she doesn't have time for meaningless things like love).
I really should try finding new friends...