I'm not affiliated with any dating site. I hate most of them. But OKC deserves a shout-out.
I was a member of OKC back before they had any dating functions. I filled out tests and questions mostly out of a random way to log my psyche.
After they started the dating functions I met 2 long-term dating partners from OKC over the years. Eventually I found myself single and got back on the site. Within a few months I was seeing to wonderful chick who a year later I would marry. That was a year ago.
I know of at least 3 other successful match ups on OKC (not all married, not all should).
Changing yourself to find someone is DESTINED to fail. That's why OKC seems to work well ... as long as you "be yourself" you find someone similar. It also seems to do a better job of pulling descriptions out of otherwise introverted people.
I think OKC may work better in SMALLER communities where sites like Match.com just don't work. Match.com, Eharmony and others seem to work based on critical mass where you date scattershot until you find someone that actually is who they said they were online.Their personality profiles and other things just aren't detailed enough.
Someone who has answered 500+ questions on OKC is likely NOT modifying their answers. Someone who has no questions (or very few) answered and no significant profile is probably just looking for someone and likely is biasing their profile significantly. Those are things that are MUCH harder to judge on other sites. Do people scan over others based on personal judgements? Sure. That's going to happen EVERYWHERE. It's called life.
PS. OKC working for me, even in smaller cities, doesn't mean I was lucky or a catch. I'm 40 now, overweight, and have as much personal baggage as anyone else. But it let me point out my good points while realistically acknowledging my faults. Honestly ... it is the best mix I've seen yet for any site like this.
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