Any person using the female pronoun by default is simply trying to push some kind of agenda.
Yeah, just like whoever writes the Dungeons and Dragons player handbooks!
How many times IRL have you heard a female friend say "Looks don't really matter to me. I'm just looking for a nice guy,"
Zero. I have never heard a woman say that. I think the idea of the woman who says this is made up by men who have no other quality other than being "nice" and want someone to blame for their lack of romantic success.