Wow brave post; looks like you were really inviting trouble with these kind of statements :) I used to hold similar views, and I know it can be a hard position to defend. It's not my fault / I have a slow metabolism / I exercise all the time and don't lose weight / some people are just built differently / etc.
Back then I weighed 132kg and had been fat all my life. Today I weigh 91.5kg, fit into ordinary size clothes (read: M, L), and feel springy & full of energy after climbing a couple flights of stairs, instead of puffed & out of breath. The change came only after I saw through all of these excuses and changed my own attitude.
You are obviously proud of the self control you have developed thus far, and you should be, but I would suggest you need to develop it a little further. You can't prevent your brain telling you that you feel hungry, but you can recognise that it is malfunctioning and choose to ignore the signal; nobody is holding a gun to your head compelling you to eat large portions. Eat nutritious food in "moderate" (look it up, it's smaller than you think!) size portions, and enjoy the feeling of being "hungry" - that's your body running low on fuel and burning the reserves!
It's not a terrible thing to feel "hungry". Not the way people in rich western countries use the word (I'm from New Zealand). There are many people in the world who live with real hunger on a daily basis. Do not mistake "I feel like eating" for *hunger* - in your case & in mine it's really not that serious that it can't be overlooked :) After you get used to eating less, your brain will catch on and stop sending the "hunger" signals.
Also, don't knock weight training. Firstly, any kind of exercise is better than none. Secondly, if your body converts fat into muscle you may not initially lose weight (muscle weighs more), but you're already more healthy. Thirdly, having more muscle is like having a bigger engine in a car; you need more juice to run it, even just during daily tasks. In other words more muscle means your metabolism rises and you burn fat more easily, plus you feel like you have more energy and exercise becomes easier. Cardio training is important too, but you've gotta start somewhere - it's a momentum thing. The more you do, the easier it gets.
In short: you have to eat less (esp. less fat; going crazy with fruit & veg can't hurt) and exercise more. That's the only way, and it's damn tough, but it does work and when you get to the other side you realise it's really really worth it :-)
Your body simply can't construct fat cells out of thin air - you have to put the right things in to it to enable it to become fat. Whatever your makeup predisposes you to, what food you put inside your body is your always your own choice.
My 2 cents.