If you choose to live in a rural area with low population density, you have to accept that perhaps your internet connexion will not be as fast as if you lived in bustling city.
I'm going to answer this from my own personal experience.
I grew up in a rural area of the midwest United States. It was an hour's drive to any decent-size city. I went to the same school from Kindergarten through 12th grade. The average class size was about 30 students. Most of the area was above the poverty line, but let's just say that anyone who came into money (or aspired do to so) got out as soon as they could. Beyond magazines and broadcast network TV, there wasn't much contact with the "outside world."
I was lucky, however. My father thought that computers were an insanely expensive fad and a huge waste of time, but my mother saw the value in having a computer in the house and (somehow) overruled him. We got the town's first dial-up Internet account at a time when almost all urban Internet users were switching to Cable or DSL. Even with the slow speeds and occupying the only phone line for the house/business for hours on end, I tried to learn everything I could about the Internet and the stuff that runs it. I joined listservs, "surfed" the web, played with shareware, chatted on IRC, etc. I learned to program (poorly, at first), learned about Linux, and eventually figured out how to make the family computer to dual-boot into either Windows or Slackware. Most importantly, I had this window to the outside world that showed me that there was so much more out there than what I was told when growing up. More interesting and inspiring people, more technology, more culture.
Now I'm in my mid-30s and a software engineer making a comfortable living in a nice city with a happy family. Would my quality of life be as the same if I had stayed in rural BFE and lived out my life like everyone else there? I doubt it very much. This is why I lobby for subsidized rural broadband. Maybe it won't greatly affect those who have the ability to choose where they live. But it can drastically improve the future lives of their children.