"Why aren't you saving 100% of your salary?"
I can confirm this about Chinese women in the major cities. At least in Shanghai, the women are real dominating; and everyone knows it. In the west, we call them "bitches". But that's what you get with competition. And in Shanghai, money rules!!! Oh, and as a guy, you're supposed to have purchased a home PRIOR to marriage for a place to move into after the ceremony. Or so that's the custom. Guys have it tough over there.