An anonymous reader writes: Spoke.com is a new affront to the concept of internet privacy. If someone is stupid enough to join their service they harvest the identities in that person's contact list and use it for their own purposes. Once your name is listed in their system they keep it and sell access to your contact information. Requests to have names removed have been ignored and getting directly through to anyone at the company have proved useless. Ideas about dealing with this new form of internet demon are welcomed.