This is with the same woman. I had sex with my wife at least a thousand times before marriage. once or twice a day every day. Once we were married, it dropped dramatically. In fact, there was a period of 3 years where we had sex twice. Overall we've maybe done it 100 times in 5.5 years at the absolute most. If you extrapolate, it would take me 55 years in this sexless marriage to achieve that goal. Many women lose all sexual interest after marriage, no matter how hard the guy tries.
Do you have kids yet? Nothing takes sex to 0 faster. If not, have some and see what I mean. If you do, lucky bastard. I am lucky to get it more than once a month, sometimes once every two months if she feels bitchy. Ahhh, love. How stupid I was.
And I'm only 28 and want it every day, all day long. What a freaking waste!