So, when I had to be executor of my mom's estate, I already knew there would be a lot of work in organizing everything, and deciding who got what, but I also encountered realized I was going to have to go through her gigs of digital pictures and figure out who was in them, who would want copies, and then somehow distribute them. She didn't use online software or any of that for her taxes, and we had some time before she passed (from cancer) to discuss online bill accounts and such things. Without having that time, it would have been even worse trying to sort through all of her digital life to figure out what needed keeping and what was important for financial purposes, etc. She only had about 10 gigs of pictures, even though she had a digital camera since the 90s, so eventually, I made it through the images... but it gave my wife and myself a realization. All of those digital pictures of our family were going to be "digital pictures no one looks at." So, she started making shutterfly books of our pictures. It's a little comforting to know that there are now printed copies of our favorite pictures, and if we need the originals we do still have them... the downside is that we're still leaving a huge collection of digital data for our children to someday have to slog through. Far more so than my 68 year old mother. In three years we've generated over 20 gigs because we photograph so much. Plus, we just bought a hi-def video camera...
So, think of the children... keep those photos and songs organized, and if you keep tax and financial info on your computer, make sure your kids or estate lawyer have passwords for anything you lock down.
I'm kind of wondering how inheritances will address the issue of drm media...