First, you are an asshole. You seem to think that having the upperhand, and maintaining it and forcing others to your will is respect. You are mistaken. That's just being an asshole, and one that no one else wants to deal with.
Second, why do you believe that IT security deserves more respect than it gets? Perhaps it is just you that doesn't get the respect that you feel you deserve because you are an ass. I replace twats like you because you think in terms of absolutes from the inside of your little fishbowl and fail to see outside it, when it is your job to do so. Following similar logic, we should never carry money or credit cards on us, unless we put it in a bank-level security vault. And then we buy armored cars to go to the grocery store so we don't get our $20 stolen.
Again, as I said before, it is not the job of IT security to lock the company down so tight that no one could ever break through their security. If that was the case, it would be easy. Unplug all the computers, and throw the office in 100' of concrete and call it a day.
No, the job of IT security is to balance the need to maintain security while balancing the need of the companies workers to, well... work. Instituting policies that cause 50-70% worker inefficiency in the name of security will bankrupt a company as fast as or faster than having no security at all.
The fact you haven't realized that it requires balancing different needs is beyond silly. Have fun living in your underground nuclear bunker my friend.