Comment are you married? (Score 1) 433
and do you have kids? I was nearly in the identical situation to yours...30 years ago...though luckier to have Northeastern U. programs available and a Masters CS degree program in evening division of Boston U....but that was not enough.
The realities of family life include MUCH less "free" time than a bachelor with a job can devote to studies. I racked up 22 credits...most of a MS CS degree but just could not get it done in the time required...even though my employers were reimbursing my tuition.