Comment Re:How to get paid to work on open source (Score 1) 57
Not all places are like that. A friend of mine put if very nicely the other day. He said he spent a long time wondering if IT was for him. It seemed really destructive to his life. He came to the conclusion that IT was great. His specific job was not. He started to look for the job he wanted.
Another wise person once said, "Not everybody needs to be a programmer". You could be a waiter, for instance (not me -- that job is waaay too hard). After 20 years, I took "a year off" to teach English in Japan. I was working 35-40 hours a day. It seemed like part time. I enjoyed my life, got married and even wrote open source software. It was Idyllic. After 5 years of my "year off" (long after I thought I would never return to IT), I suddenly came back. I'm in a great team, working 40 hours a week and having a blast. We're a bit of a crazy team and are extreme, even for extreme programmers. I don't have a huge amount of time at work to write open source software, but I don't work stupid hours and my boss recognizes the value of giving me time to work on my own projects.
Sometimes it is easy to get trapped in the box thinking that there is only one way forward. Programmers are problem solvers. I don't know exactly what the solution to your problem is, but I feel certain that you can find it if you are creative enough. Don't give up!