One interesting thing is that some of the most successful physical theories, successful in an "experimental validation" sense of the word, are pretty much out there where it comes to how things are really happening. Quantum electrodynamics are an impressive case. If you have the time, read "QED: The Strange Theory of Light and Matter", by R. Feynman. Not only it's very interesting and well written, it's also pretty illuminating on that subject. A good quarter of the book is about driving home the point that it is a mathematical theory that works impressively well but at the same time makes no intuitive sense, some like Einstein would say no sense at all ("God does not play dice" is the common paraphrase), where it comes to understanding the world.
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