However, no-one would question that what actually occurred was, in fact, theft. No-one would ask whether the car owner wanted it to happen.
The owner's insurance company would ask both of those questions as part of their investigation prior to paying out a claim.
No-one would have suggested the victim should have had a less attractive car.
In my life I have observed that people with more expensive (at-risk for theft) cars devote more resources to protecting them than people with less expensive cars. I've also see the same thing with houses and other posessions.
Still not seeing why, if self-protection against crime is considered the responsibility of the potential victim in every other situation, rape should be treated as a special case.
Every individual is responsible for their own self protection. This responsibility in no way reduces the culpability of criminals. This isn't contraversial when you talk about 99.9% of crimes, so why is so much effort being directed into making it a "gender issue"?