Not sure if that was a joke or if you have been drinking too much apple koolaide. I don't think apple loves you as much as you think it does. I don't think apple execs care about you as much as you think they do.
It's not that Apple loves you more than any other mega-corporation. Few people, I would imagine, actually have delusions about that. But Apple's primary business is selling hardware to you. It's partly why their hardware generally commands a premium price - it's sale subsidizes a lot of their software development.
Contrary to that, Google's primary business is selling information about you. This is used to subsidize many excellent and completely free software services, such as search, e-mail, and the Android platform.
I happily use gmail and have an Android phone. You just have to know the tradeoffs you're making. If you feel creepy about having an algorithm scan your e-mail to automatically present some targeted ads to you in exchange for a free e-mail service, then perhaps Apple is a better choice. If you're uncomfortable with Apple's complete control over it's walled garden world, then maybe Google / Android is a better choice for you. And if you're bound and determined to punish yourself, you can always buy a Windows phone.