Comment Re: here we go (Score 1) 834
You are not sure women get harassed more than men? Why not?
Because I can't tell the difference between actually getting harassed more and our biases coloring things to look that way.
There is a great deal of room for improvement on the way men treat women.
So you want to talk about harassment - but your opening move is to split people, not into harassers and victims, but by birth group according to your own biases, and insist on that being the framework for the discussion. To me that says that you care less about ending harassment than maintaining your worldview or identity as the 'guy who get it'. (When you say "admitting this doesn't make me less of a man" you're essentially bragging about how you're better than those other guys.)
So try this one:
There is a great deal of room for improvement on the way women treat children and the elderly.
Sure, women abuse the most vulnerable in our society more than men do, but is focusing on that the right way to make progress? Should I base part of my ego on "admitting that women are part of the problem"?