Comment Re:Great post (Score 1) 20
My opinion is it's not the crux that ideally children are raised by both genders, but that ideally they're raised by both gender roles. And as far as I can tell, homosexual couples typically contain a more feminized member and a more masculinized one.
And ideally children are raised by people who actually want children. In this case, the experience I'm "denying myself" is not like going for bungee jumping; it involves bringing a new life into the world and a long-term commitment. That's not something I'd jump into just to check it off the list of pieces of the overall human experience experienced.
I don't know what God has in store for me, but I'm 48 this year, and I'm not exactly Abraham. It seems plausible to me that children aren't necessarily for everyone. I can accept that I'm defective in this regard, if that's what it means. My soft spot as far as nurturing desire and ability for great tolerance is for dogs.
From your referenced article:
Plante feels it is a necessary government role to create an ideal environment to raise children: “The reason we protect and promote marriage is because we want good, healthy citizens for our next generation.”
I completely disagree. Social/societal engineering is not a moral, legitimate role of government. Government is to keep a modicum of order, and otherwise not interfere or try to influence people in doing what they want. I'm not here to generate any particular kind of citizen for the next generation of this country, any more than I'm here to sustain the earth. The planet, this country, and abstract concepts don't have souls. I does. Everything will pass away except us. We exist for a larger purpose.
Besides, I don't believe in the powerlessness or apathy of God in working His will in this world any more than I believe in a fragile earth. Nothing can happen that He doesn't allow, and He has an overall plan, which I trust in (except in my moments of doubt and weakness). No matter how raised, God's law, and ergo knowledge of His existence, is written on our hearts: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1034798/Children-born-know-right-wrong-new-research-shows.html et al.