In the end freely licensed source code can have no dictators, only obsoleted dickhead.
Unless you count the "Benevolent Dictator For Life" role in some large and fork-resistant open-source projects.
"Benevolent Dictator For Life" has some examples of such.
I say "fork-resistant" not because they've actively blocked being forked, but because when forks do happen, they rarely survive as independent projects, either dying or rolling back into the mainline.
I'd count GCC as one of the latter, because although egcc did become the main-line, we didn't see (that I understand, anyway) a wholesale supplanting of project management and control the way we did with X.org forking from XFree86.
I honestly have no idea whom Apache was forked from, or the circumstances thereof.