Everything you said is false.
I mean, I can't imagine how you could be wrong on every single point, unless you are still driving that 82 Toyota.
The headlights recognize tail lights and won't go to bright when I'm following, the car can distinguish someone cutting me off, and brakes just enough to allow for the DIFFERENCE in speed, the blind spot monitoring works perfectly, (and I still turn my head because not all the cars I drive have this). Cross traffic detection is for when you are backing out of parking spaces, not driving.
Basically, I don't think you should be driving period. Your attitude betrays an ego larger than your brain. You don't belong on the road.
Its time to trade in that deadly heap you drive, because your abilities stopped improving years ago.
Humans are the least reliable element in the modern car.