Child support is paid to which ever parent ends up with the children.
I am living proof that this is a false statement.
Focusing on the escapes isn't focusing on the problem. Tell me, which sex is more likely to be diagnosed for medical "treatment" than the other? The current schooling environment is hostile to boys. *That* is the reason they aren't good at it, they are not taught how because the teachers are predominantly female and don't know or want to know how to teach boys. So the boys escape.
If a surviving spouse needs that to know what the bills are, they haven't been very intelligent about things in the first place. Same for investments. For that matter, same for passwords.
Work without a vision is slavery, Vision without work is a pipe dream, But vision with work is the hope of the world.