This is one the things that sucks about being an atheist. Other than the existential dread, of course. I will never really have this feeling of community. I know that I will always be able to count on my close family, but that's where it ends.
I have no belief in god nor any intention to change my mind on the subject, but what you described is pretty appealing.
This is where someone jumps in and goes "blah blah blah blah victim blaming! Blah blah blah offensive! Blah blah blah slut shaming!"
Giving advice on how to protect yourself is now seen as victim blaming, so you won't see too much of that. We live in a society where if you jump in the tiger's cage and get eaten, it is considered offensive to say that maybe you shouldn't have jumped in the tiger's cage.
If you have a procedure with 10 parameters, you probably missed some.