Comment Re:Given the this community's gender troubles... (Score 1) 575
Strangely, they are taken seriously by people who study oppression.
"Safe" means people are treated with respect and dignity, with no power dynamic associated with sex or gender stereotypes. If that's being pushed on you unilaterally, then, yes, that's a problem, but not a problem with the people with pushing it.
Your perception that women aren't oppressed in this culture does not stand up to the pervasive personal experience of the oppressed people.
Anyone can make an omelet with eggs. The trick is to make one with none.