Germans, especially northern Germans, most especially northern Germans in the countryside, very most especially elderly northern Germans from the countryside, are notorious for being busybodies. If you do laundry on a Sunday, this is against some unwritten rule, and you will hear about it from them. If your car is insufficiently clean, you will hear about it from such people. If you fail to hang out your laundry in a satisfyingly symmetrical pattern (most especially if it's on a Sunday), don't be surprised to hear about it from the neighbors. And so on.
Of course, generally they make some exceptions, especially for the young (who presumably don't know better yet) and foreigners (who are of course beneath contempt because they can't make a proper Bratwurst anyway, let alone pronounce an umlaut). But once in a while I still get some bit of this hostility for having dared to upset the delicate world of German Ordnung.
Except that the latest example is so bizarre...
See, I own a bike. I, like several other residents of our building, store my bike in the back courtyard when not in use. Various people have sort of claimed spots for their bikes over time, and because I got my bike rather late in comparison, I got stuck with my "spot" being to chain it to a post of an old clothesline. Additionally my bike chain is rather short, and to effectively chain it up (i.e. through both the frame and front wheel, to prevent the front wheel from being stolen), I can pretty much only chain it to a vertical post anyway, so no big deal.
Everything was peachy, I thought.
Recently, as you may have heard in the news, we had a big gale blow in, with winds of up to force 12. Naturally my bike got knocked over (since the others were along walls and so on, they apparently didn't fall over). BoE righted it once; it apparently fell over again, because a day or two later I went to get it and it was on its side. Whatever, I picked it up and rode it to wherever, then chained it up when I got back. No big deal.
Today I went downstairs and discovered a small black and white photo of my bike lying on its side sitting on a windowsill. Naturally the person could have righted the bike as a nice person would, or could have just assumed the wind knocked it over, or even could have rung our doorbell to inform us the bike had fallen over, but instead they went to the effort of:
- going upstairs to get their camera
- taking a photo of my bike
- taking the film to have it developed
- picking up said film and paying for it to be printed
- sticking the photo in the windowsill
This, you see, is how Nachbarkriege (literally "neighbor wars") are declared, all because I had the bad form to allow my bike to be disorderly. Of course, if I complain to the management about my neighbor harassing me, I almost certainly will be lectured for having allowed my bike to fall over anyway.
It's times like this that I really feel like leaving this fucking country. Then I try to remind myself that changing countries just means changing problems. But still...
As it happens the in-laws were here, and of course I told them and BoE about the photo (I had left it where it was for the time being -- I had intended to confront my prime suspect with the photo later, because I'm not about to take this shit lying down). And of course MIL had already disposed of it. Great. Just great.