In my country, recycling consists of putting some of the paper back into paper processes (not unlike has been done for a long while), melting down the "easy" plastics, and selling them on. A lot of the rest is sent abroad and landfilled. It was the result of several news stories - fact is, the effort in collecting that plastic probably outweighs the energy saved by reusing them. Have you seen the process that you have to put a bit of used paper through to make it saleable again?
Recycling is about not using up the raw material (oil), not saving energy. To collect, clean, filter, melt-down and redistribute that paper or plastic costs a ton of energy, not least our own. Want to save the planet? Don't let it get on there in the first place and (in my case) make it illegal to post adverts through my door (several dozen sheets of glossy paper every single day).
Carpooling? That's again about resource conservation of oil, not energy-saving. Even buying the cheapest electric bike would do a bucket more than any amount of carpooling.
Turning down the heating? That's real energy-saving, I don't deny that - that's kind of the point of what I'm talking about where that outweighs EVERY OTHER MEASURE by orders of magnitude.
However, there's a limit to the amount you can car-pool and turn down a thermostat (or put off turning on the a/c). You can't sit and freeze/boil, so it's about accepting a different tolerance to your comfort level. If you live without a/c, or with a/c that's energy "free", then - as I say - that's to be respected, but knocking down a degree when you always could have and never needed it that warm in the first place?
Feeling big because you dropped the thermostat to 20 one day because you didn't notice cold that day? That's pathetic. Especially if you then have to ramp it up /down all day long later to compensate.
People are not aware, that's the problem. Where I work, I label the printers with a total cost per page - the cost of the energy, the cost of the paper, the cost of the ink, all added together. People are shocked. So they turn the printer off to "save energy" every five minutes. The cost of the initial boot on a large photocopier is often more than 8 hours of standby, not to mention the wait for the 10-minute boot process where everyone goes off and turns on the other printers to see if they are any faster.
It's about the bigger picture and, sorry, but your low-hanging fruit are really a waste of time. Lightbulbs? You'd have to leave an energy saver on constantly for several days to cope with forgetting you'd boiled the kettle and having to boil it again (which could take seconds on already-warm water).
Sure, we can make pence here and there, but it's totally wiped out, completely, by ignorance of the larger things. And often such energy-saving is directly at the expense of some other limited resource, usually a non-renewable one (e.g. the materials used in solar panels, CFL bulbs, etc.).
The reason my dad - a 60's child bringing me up in the 70's- stopped telling me to unplug everything at night? Because I did the maths and showed him the worst possible scenario. And then plugged in an energy meter and showed him the actual (lesser) result. It was so little for most things that it just wasn't worth wasting breath on, let alone the personal energy to go around at night switching things off (fire concerns aside). And that was 20 years ago.
The things that matter are being ignored PRECISELY for the worthless low-hanging fruit that make lives unnecessarily uncomfortable for the sake of some false peace of mind. And then those people will go on holiday where there's a hot tub, wipe out several dozen times their annual saving, and not give it a second thought. I'd much rather we took things seriously and forgot about lightbulbs, standby, etc. and thought more about several dozen miles of motorways illuminated 24 hours a day, or superstores that put heaters on the entrances and then put the freezer aisles near the entrance. The energy pissed away on the large items totally swamps your conscious (and almost certainly conscientious) efforts on the little things.
I'm not even sure about the mathematics of having several dozen large lorries come to collect general waste, then several dozen more to collect recyclable waste, then several dozen MORE (all different lorries) to collect compostable waste, all visiting the same houses in the same order and in peak periods (rather than, say, when they won't be holding up queues of traffic and fighting through traffic themselves). Just that, to me, wipes out any saving that I might have had in separating out such wastes. And I happen to know that the guy with the waste contracts from the council owns the recycling firms - they are being paid by my taxes to collect my rubbish to send to their own company to recycle it, claim a huge tax rebate / incentive grant, and then sell on the result to - ME!
Most things about energy saving are NOT about saving energy at all. And the message is totally lost because of that.