Why are they barbarians - because they have rules regarding what they find socially offensive? In this country a 15 year old boy was driven to suicide after being threatened with jail time and inclusion on the sex offender registry after he was caught streaking at a football game. Are we any less barbaric then? Homeless people caught taking a leak are added to sex offender registries regularly. Teens having consensual sex are added as well. And again, *they* are the barbarians?
And I don't buy the fact that they abuse women on any scale greater than anywhere else. If that was the case, I think you'd see lots of women expatriating or seeking refugee status in other countries. We don't though. Do we? Funding terrorism? As opposed to the USA the essentially funded, trained and armed the terrorism we are fighting via Osama Bin Ladin's Al-Qaeda in the 90s? Who was the leader of the free world that IMMEDIATELY went to the "solution" of bombing Syria and adding more bodies to the death count as a means of punishing Syria for adding more bodies to the death count. Which first world country is developing a reputation for having extremely violent police force who will shoot first and ask questions later?
So, why would we tolerate their shit? Mostly because we force the rest of the world to tolerate ours. Unless of course, you enjoy living hypocritically. Let's clean up our own house before we comment on the condition of someone elses.