I don't give a shit what you think is acceptable so you can go fuck yourself, asshole, and then die in a fire.
It is interesting that you think 2+% of the population of men are rapist.Tell me, asshole, why do you think 3,500,000+ of your fellow men are rapists? So, we should be seeing millions of rapes a year, but we don't. Why is that? Oh, I know, most of them are in prison, right? But, then they wouldn't be at a conference. But, most of them couldn't be in prison because then they would make up then entire prison population.
And, yes, I do give a second thought to being attacked. I give it as much thought as women should, which is a lot less than they apparently do. It is called situational awareness and it is because I am statistically much more likely to be punched in the face or stabbed at a conference than a woman is to be raped or killed at one. I am more likely to be attacked in a bar, in a park, or on the street than a woman is to be because a woman isn't seen to be as big a threat to a criminal as a man is. Most criminals aren't going to rape and/or kill a woman, just like most criminals aren't going to rape and/or kill a man. They want your wallet, watch, cellphone, and jewelry, not your life, and they want to get away as fast as possible. Do you know who is most-likely to rape a woman: a man she knows and has probably dated. Do you know where that rape is most-likely to occur? It is in his home, then her home, then a shared home. And, if it is in her home, the rapist is almost always invited inside by the woman.
And, that isn't drivel. I have seen way too many women start dating men who the women KNOW are at best untrustworthy and at worst abusive. And, it is actually good life advice. Don't want fleas, don't lay down with dogs. Don't want to be treated like criminal, don't hang out with known criminals. If a woman wants to be safe and treated well, she needs to, wait for it, actually be around people who want to keep her safe and treat her well. If a woman wants to be safe outdoors, she will do just what many men do almost unconsciously, practice situational awareness.
All the nice girls? I've met many of them and watched as they muddled through life pining for one hot bad boy after another, getting used, and crying about how horrible all men are or crying about how horrible men are because the hot bad boys don't want to date them because they spent a few too many nights eating ice cream while pining away.
YOU are part of the problem. You feed into women's fear and paranoia, their hate of men, and their double-standards. Women want to be free to do anything and be treated like equals as long as every man everywhere watches their backs and makes sure nothing bad happens to them and no one says anything they don't like because they are helpless women who need protecting.
You know, everyone talks about mysogyny and how women are always in danger from men. Not a man, not a few men, not some men, ALL men. YOU ARE CONSIDERED DANGEROUS UNTIL PROVEN OTHERWISE. Happen to walk into a parking garage just after a womanyou are a possible rapist because "every man is a rapist" and you will be treated like a rapist when all you want is to get into your car, Explain how treating all men like that are rapists is not misandrist, and as it is taught to women, it is institutionalized misandry.
I am betting you have heard about 1 in 4 college aged women being raped, right? Maybe you should learn more about that statistic: