no current system/application/internet thing exists to make the experience of 'you and all of your friends visiting the same varying virtual destinations a social experience'
Where the f*** did you read that in my comment?
Facebook only offers you your info for sale, and a way to consistently communicate in recognizable patterns globally through a single identity, not a real social experience
So does your provider, and everybody else. What do I care that my music listening preferences are blasted into the world and data mined? Do you know what trends are? They are data-mined :). And as "social experience", I choose to have a life offline. Like most users do.
modern research (http://www.scientificamerican.com/
I'd argue that scientific american is neither a modern and an acccurate reference when talking about social networks. But I get a bit bitchy about details.
I'd be willing to bet that what our brains are currently tuned to interpret as a truly "social"
Brains process patterns. Proximity (specially multi-sensorial) is a pattern, much more fullfilling than online experiences.
i shouldn't post slashdot comments on St. Patty's Day.
Waaaay ahead of you :D Happy St Patrick's day from Portugal ;)